This morning I was skimming through Threads and found this post:

I read through the comments of women and some men. There was a resounding response and I will summarize. We aren’t losing our minds.

We are just DONE!

We are done pretending things are ok when they aren’t. We are done people pleasing. We are done taking care of men who weren’t mothered properly by their own mothers. We are done being yo mommas- we have our own children.

Grow up.

We are done having to remind men to schedule their appointments. 👁️ 👄 👁️

We are done with unreciprocated friendships.

Grow UP!

You will now get what you give and if you’re not giving anything back, you will now get NOTHING!

Grow up.

We are done with not having boundaries. If you don’t like the boundaries we put up, then you are the reason why we made them.

REFLECT!

Many women have attributed the shift to hormones. I agree a bit, although I am not in full blown menopause.

I have seen clearly now for quite some time that has zero to do with hormones but rather the amount of trauma healing I have put myself through. I have no doubt that as I sail through perimenopause that the hormonal shift will add even more clarity on things I won’t put up with. Stand clear…… because I’m cutting the unnecessary “fat” from my life. That fat is the form of people- every vampire, people who just want your ear but are never an ear. BYE BITCH! ✌🏽

So, call it “losing our minds”. I call it finding my voice. Finding who I really am. Finding out what really matters. Finding out how much time I wasted on things and people that didn’t matter- like at all. I found ME while “losing my mind”. I’d lose my mind all over again if it meant I could find who I am sooner.

So, women….. cash out your fucks to give today and be feral. There is no better time than now to stop giving a fuck. ✌🏽