All a child wants is love, protection and guidance.
Needs boundaries and to be taught boundaries.
Parents- denying your own trauma only breed more invalidation and denial of actual trauma. Stop denying your own trauma and face the music. Your constant denial and unwillingness to deal with your past is destroying the next generation. For you Christians, “the sins of the Father” are passed down and your children pay for it.
Heal your trauma and it in turn will heal the next generation. STOP DENYING and running away. Stop running from the pain because you’re only causing more generational compounded trauma and PTSD.